Author Archives: Jay Butchko
What To Do When Your Spouse Tells You They Want A Divorce
In some divorces, problems are obvious and stem from long standing disputes between the spouses. In other situations, the decision to get a divorce comes as a shock to one of the partners, leaving them reeling and wondering where things went wrong. If you have been blindsided by your spouse insisting on a separation… Read More »
Three Ways Adultery Can Impact Your Divorce
Adultery has a devastating impact on a marriage. While some couples find it possible to address the issue and put it behind them, in other cases it can lead to a permanent breakdown of the relationship. Cheating on your spouse is not grounds for divorce in Florida, but it can impact other decisions that… Read More »
Dealing With Blended Families
There is life after a divorce, and it often involves a partner who has gone through the same or a similar experience. Both of you may be dealing with the reality of having to deal with an ex in your life, particularly if there were children from the marriage and you are dealing with… Read More »
Approaching Your Partner About A Prenuptial Agreement
Bringing up the idea of a prenuptial agreement with your fiancé may be something you have been putting off or dreading. At the same time, it is an important step for the both of you to take as a couple, and one that can help get your marriage started on the right financial footing…. Read More »
Appealing Divorce and Timesharing Judgments
In cases involving divorce, time sharing plans, and other family law decisions, judgments handed down by the court can have a major impact on you and your loved ones, both now and in the future. In the event you are unhappy with a decision or if you feel a mistake was made, you may… Read More »
Recovering From Emotional Abuse During Your Divorce
There are a variety of issues that can bring about the end of marriage, but emotional abuse is one of the most difficult to face and recover from. The abuser typically downplays their actions or behavior, and there are no physical injuries that prove the degree harm done. While filing for divorce can help… Read More »
Do I Need A Lawyer For An Uncontested Divorce?
In making the decision to file for divorce, an uncontested divorce may seem like the fastest and safest route to go. Uncontested divorces can be resolved quickly, provided there are no major disputes and the parties agree on certain issues. Even in these types of matters, it is a smart move to consult with… Read More »
Six Ways To Protect Yourself Financially When Going Through A Divorce
During your marriage, you and your spouse likely took the steps necessary to protect yourselves and your financial future, such as establishing savings or retirement accounts and making sure you were adequately insured. When going through a divorce, it is all too common to overlook these matters, which can end up causing you financial… Read More »
Making The Case For Alimony
Going through a divorce requires you to change and grow in ways you may not always be prepared for. If you have spent part of your marriage as a stay-at-home parent or let your own career stagnate in favor of supporting your spouse’s goals, you likely have concerns about your ability to make a… Read More »
Five Reasons You Should Have a Formal Child Support Order
Raising children is expensive, particularly on one income. For parents who are divorced or unmarried, it is not uncommon to have to struggle to meet all of your child’s basic needs, as well as their educational, social, and medical expenses. In order to keep the peace in potentially contentious situations or to avoid having… Read More »